Question 1

Is this course for me?

Accepted Answer

This course is for all women and Flinta* (female, lesbian, intersex, nonbinary, trans, agender) who wish to deepen their relationship with their body, pleasure beyond technics, and erotic power.

This Course Is Especialy For You If…
 • You feel disconnected from your body, desire, or pleasure
 • You’ve learned to perform intimacy instead of feeling it
 • You’ve never experienced an orgasm, or you’re not sure if you have.
 • You don’t really know what ‘good’ is supposed to feel like in your body.
 • Your body responds (wetness, arousal), but you barely turn into pleasure.
 • You’re scared of getting your hopes up and being disappointed again.
 • Words like orgasm, squirting, wetness feel confusing or stressful, not exciting.
and honestly,
you get aroused, but no satisfied... 
You crave intimacy that feels safe, pleasurable, and embodied (with yourself or partners) but don’t know where to start
 • You want a grounded, trauma-informes, non-performative approach to sexuality & pleasure

You might be single, partnered, poly, questioning, or none of the above.

*All who carry socialized experiences of “the feminine body” are welcome: across identities, orientations, and relationship structures.

Question 2

Do I need a partner?

Accepted Answer

Not necessary.
 This journey centers self‑relationship and embodied exploration.

Question 3

I don't really see the point in a course on pleasure

Accepted Answer

I get it... for many of us (and same for me, up until 4 years ago):
Pleasure feels like a luxury.
 Not a basic human need & your birthright

Pleasure Lab exists to woek on patterns that often show up in your relationship way beyond orgasm/sexuality/physical pleasure, for example:
 • You focus on what works for them.
 • You don’t know what to ask for, or how.
 • You feel “not sexual enough.”
 • You’re ashamed that you don’t have the experiences others talk about.
 • You don’t think about pleasure during the day.
 • You don’t feel desire toward your own body.
 • You wonder: Why does it seem easy for other women, but not for me?
 • You’re afraid to discover that there’s… nothing there.

Question 4

Do I need prior experience with somatic or sexuality work?

Accepted Answer

No. This journey is beginner-friendly and guided step by step.

To those who did with me Libido Lab (my first step into braver, safer Intimacy) will already have the foundations to the Pleasure Lab, which is great, but not a must.

Question 5

Is there nudity or explicit sexual activity?

Accepted Answer

This is an embodied, psychosexual educational space that is fully consent-based and trauma-informed. All practices are invitations, not requirements. You are always free to choose how you participate, adapt, or opt out.

There is no hierarchy, performance, or expectation around how to practice. 
Nudity or sexual touch are never required and only possible through personal choice. Cameras may be turned off at any time while practicing. 
The focus is on evidence-based somatic exploration, safety, and agency, not explicit sexual content.

Question 6

Will there be interaction?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Pleasure Lab is more than a course, it is a relational field and a global community of women and Flinta* beings learning together.

The journey includes optional sharing, reflection, and witnessing, all held within clear boundaries and explicit consent. 
You are welcome to speak, listen, or simply be present.

Learning happens not only through guidance, but through being seen, resonating, and learning from one another in a safe, contained space.

Question 7

Is this suitable if I have trauma? or what do to if I feel nervous or resistant?

Accepted Answer

Pleasure Lab is trauma-informed, but it is not a private therapy or clinical treatment. 
Nervous system safety, consent, and choice are central throughout the entire course.

Feeling nervous, unsure, or resistant is completely welcome here. All practices are invitations, and you are encouraged to move at your own pace, adapt, or pause whenever needed.

If you have specific concerns or want to sense whether this space is right for you, I warmly invite you to book a discovery call. We can explore together whether Pleasure Lab is a supportive and aligned fit for you at this time.

Question 8

🏳️‍🌈 Is this course LGBTQ+ and polyamory-friendly?

Accepted Answer

Absolutely. Explicitly and intentionally.

Your individuality is not something to be “understood”, it’s something to be celebrated.

This is a queer-affirming, trans-inclusive, body-diverse space.
 All genders, sexual orientations, relationship constellations, and identities are welcome.

We celebrate the diversity of bodies, desires, expressions, and ways of relating,
 without making any one of them the norm.
You will never be expected to engage in practices based on gender, sexuality, or identity assumptions.
 Language, structures, and consent frameworks are designed to be inclusive and flexible.
You belong here as you are.

omatic ex oaching

תהליך לא.נשים וזוגות אמיצים
בו נחקור גוף, מיניות ויחסים

🧩 Bundle: Safety → Pleasure

🌿 איזה כיף שאת.ה כאן🌿

omatic ex oaching​

תהליך לא.נשים וזוגות אמיצים בו נחקור גוף, מיניות ויחסים

🧩 Bundle: Safety → Pleasure

🌿 איזה כיף שאת.ה כאן🌿

omatic ex oaching

תהליך לא.נשים וזוגות אמיצים
בו נחקור גוף, מיניות ויחסים