Personal & Relational Transformation
through intimacy & nature
Temple Night for
Women & Female* Read-Queer Bodies
13.12.25 | Cologne
One-day journey
to safely explore your desires,
set your boundaries,
and feel fully alive
—without any pressure to meet outside expectations—
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A night of wild, safe, embodied aliveness
You might…
have been to mixed-sex positive spaces before
but found yourself shrinking, guarding, or explaining
want to explore eros, touch, and intimacy without the
pressure of others' gaze or heteronormative scripts
long for a field where you don’t need to
translate your body, story, or your queerness
where everyone simply gets it.
know your body is a temple
a place of pleasure, safety, and reverence
If you’re ready to reconnect to that...
keep reading
" This was my first event of this kind,
And it was life-changing.
Exciting, funny, and a bit uncomfortable in the best way, like daring to shed skin.
Thank you for the clear boundaries that gave me the freedom to explore and opened a portal to a world I didn’t know was mine. "
Queens & Queers is a safe, playful container
held exclusively for women, female-read*, AFAB and queer bodies
that enable us all
to explore somatics, connection, and perhaps eros
always with clear consent
It is an opportunity to
be among others who share your embodied reality
A journey in which we learn and practice practical tools for
embodied intimacy that nourishes both
your sensuality and your belonging
" I'm really happy I heard your words at the workshop, I could really relate to them, and moved my heart deeply.
I learned something important about boundaries with you two.
Can't wait to participate in another one! "
C.
About your hosts
Sapphire Leela (she/All)
I'm a Somatic Sexology coach,
trauma-informed yoga & embodiment teacher,
and a Psycho-Sexual & Relationship therapist
(MSC in training)
My passion is to support people in moving from pleasing into
Embodied Pleasure & Relational Power
This temple comes from my own story:
From pain, disconnection, and abuse, without having anyone to talk to when I needed it most. That journey is what fuels my commitment to create spaces of safety, aliveness, and belonging.
For years, I’ve been guiding hundreds of people in workshops, 1:1 and temples, inspired by trauma-informed yoga, somatic practices, and group processes in intimacy, relationships, and body connection.
My path weaves together academic psychology, nervous system regulation, somatic sexology, yoga, and Buddhist practice.
I hold this temple because I know how much it matters to have spaces where women and queer bodies can remember:
your body is sacred, your desires are welcome, and you belong.
Jess Kugler (she/her)
I’m a certified systemic coach and couples & sex therapist and HPPsych i.T based in Cologne-Ehrenfeld.
My work is rooted in embodiment, radical honesty, and the belief that desire carries wisdom. Like many I support, I came from pain and disconnection—from my body, from trust, from safety. That journey fuels my commitment to spaces of safety, aliveness, and belonging.
I work in Köln-Ehrenfeld, online, and in workshops with individuals and couples ready to explore sexuality, patterns, longings, and blocks. Drawing on systemic and body-oriented methods and trauma-informed tools, I help people reconnect, communicate clearly, and build intimacy that feels safe, real, and fulfilling. My practice is trauma-aware and inclusive of all genders, orientations, and relationship styles, and open to anyone who wants to grow, heal, and feel more at home in their bodies and bonds.
Beyond therapy, I create workshops, podcasts, and community spaces that bring taboo topics into the light and spark open-hearted conversations around love, sexuality, and connection.
I hold this space because I believe:
We all deserve to feel safe, connected, and fully alive, and have joyful, connected relationships with others and ourselves.
When:
13.12.25
18:30 arrival
19:00 starting
23:30 end
Where:
An intimate Semminarraum in
Köln
Ticket prices are offered in three pulses:
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First 10 tickets: 55 €
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Second 15 tickets: 65€
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Final tickets: 75 €
Please note: Registration is an application, not a direct booking.
We review all applications to help create a safe and supportive space. Only after receiving your confirmation email will you get the payment details and find out which sliding scale applies to you (depending on how many participants have already confirmed and paid).
Capacity:
Limited to 50 participants to ensure intimacy and connection.
Frequently Asked Questions
Who Is Temple For?
What if I’m new to this kind of experience?
This Temple is designed to be accessible to beginners and experienced participants alike.
Whether you’re new to these experiences or have been on this journey for years: This space is for anyone curious about exploring deeper levels of connection, intimacy, and play.
We invite you to play with a beginner's mind.
This is especially a space for you if
You’re craving a space where your body, your queerness, your tenderness don’t need explanation.
You’re curious to explore eros and aliveness in a safe, guided setting.
You want to feel the joy of being with women and queer kin who share your embodied reality.
Is this space trans-inclusive?
This temple is for women, lesbians, female*-read queer, and nonbinary folks living in female bodies*
We know this boundary is specific.
It stems from lived wounds and a deep need to rest in the company of others who share this embodied reality.
If this boundary touches something sensitive for you, please don't hesitate to reach out. We welcome dialogue.
What if I feel shy or triggered?
Shyness is welcome here. You are invited to honor your own pace, whether that means participating fully, watching quietly, or taking a pause.
If something feels triggering, you’ll be supported to step back and reconnect with yourself, and to approach one of us for support.
Do I have to engage in everything?
Do I have to do anything sexual?
Absolutely not! Nothing is ever required.
We invite Active and mindful participation meaning we highly welcome agency by being able to step a side as any part.
This is a space where you can explore at your own pace, following your own curiosity and honoring your boundaries.
What Should I Bring?
Wear comfortable clothes you feel good in. Bring water, and if you wish, a small item for the altar.
Curious?
Still have some concerns or hesitations?