Personal & Relational Transformation
through intimacy & nature
Temple Night for
Women & Female* Read-Queer Bodies
18.10.25 | Cologne
One-day journey
to safely explore your desires,
set your boundaries,
and feel fully alive
—without any pressure to meet outside expectations—
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A night of wild, safe, embodied aliveness
You might…
have been to mixed-sex positive spaces before
but found yourself shrinking, guarding, or explaining
want to explore eros, touch, and intimacy without the
pressure of others' gaze or heteronormative scripts
long for a field where you don’t need to
translate your body, story, or your queerness
where everyone simply gets it.
know your body is a temple
a place of pleasure, safety, and reverence
If you’re ready to reconnect to that...
keep reading
" This was my first event of this kind,
And it was life-changing.
Exciting, funny, and a bit uncomfortable in the best way, like daring to shed skin.
Thank you for the clear boundaries that gave me the freedom to explore and opened a portal to a world I didn’t know was mine. "
Queens & Queers is a safe, playful container
held exclusively for women, female-read*, and queer bodies
that enable us all
to explore somatics, connection, and perhaps eros
always with clear consent
It is an opportunity to
be among others who share your embodied reality
A journey in which we learn and practice practical tools for
embodied intimacy that nourishes both
your sensuality and your belonging
" I'm really happy I heard your words at the workshop, I could really relate to them, and moved my heart deeply.
I learned something important about boundaries with you two.
Can't wait to participate in another one! "
C.
About your hosts
Sapphire Leela (she/All)
I'm a Somatic Sex coach,
trauma-informed yoga teacher,
and a Sex & Relationship therapist
(in training)
My passion is to support people in moving from pleasing into
Embodied Pleasure & Relational Power
This temple comes from my own story:
From pain, disconnection, and abuse, without having anyone to talk to when I needed it most. That journey is what fuels my commitment to create spaces of safety, aliveness, and belonging.
For years, I’ve been guiding hundreds of people in workshops, 1:1 and temples, inspired by trauma-informed yoga, somatic practices, and group processes in intimacy, relationships, and body connection.
My path weaves together academic psychology, nervous system regulation, somatic sexology, yoga, and Buddhist practice.
I hold this temple because I know how much it matters to have spaces where women and queer bodies can remember:
your body is sacred, your desires are welcome, and you belong.
Jess Kugler (she/her)
I'm a certified systemic coach,
and couples & sex therapist based in Cologne, Ehrenfeld.
My work is rooted in embodiment, radical honesty, and the deep belief that our desires hold wisdom.
Like many of the people I now support, my journey began in pain and disconnection, from my body, from trust, from safety. I know what it means to move through trauma, to crave real connection, and to feel lost in systems that don't see your truth.
That personal journey is what fuels my commitment to create spaces of safety, aliveness, and belonging.
In my practice in Köln-Ehrenfeld, online, and through workshops, I support individuals and couples who are ready to explore themselves more deeply, their sexuality, relational patterns, longings, and blocks. My work draws on systemic and body-oriented methods, trauma-informed tools, and a whole lot of curiosity and compassion.
I help people reconnect, communicate clearly, and explore intimacy in ways that feel safe, real, and deeply fulfilling. Whether you're navigating a crisis in your relationship, rediscovering your sexuality, or seeking deeper self-connection, I meet you where you are.
With a holistic mix of systemic coaching, change management, and embodied therapeutic tools, I combine structure with warmth, humor, and deep presence. It means working with the nervous system, the stories we carry, and the longings that want to be felt, not just talked about.
My practice is poly- and kink-positive, trauma-aware, and inclusive, whether you're exploring non-monogamy, part of the fetish and kink scene, or facing more traditional relationship challenges. I support individuals and couples of all genders and orientations who want to grow, heal, and feel more at home in their bodies and bonds.
Beyond therapy, I create workshops, podcasts, and community spaces that bring taboo topics into the light and spark open-hearted conversations around love, sexuality, and connection.
I hold this space because I believe:
Your body is not a problem to fix.
Your longing is not too much.
You get to feel safe, connected, and fully alive.
At my core, I believe:
Everyone deserves joyful, connected relationships with others and with themselves.
When:
18.10.25
18:30 arrival
19:00 starting
23:30 end
Where:
An intimate Semminarraum in
Köln, close to the main station
Ticket prices are offered in three pulses:
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First 10 tickets: 50–70 € (Sold out)
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Second 15 tickets: 70–80€
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Final tickets: 80–90 €
We use a sliding scale system, which means you can choose the amount that feels right for your financial situation while also supporting others in the community.
Please note: Registration is an application, not a direct booking.
We review all applications to help create a safe and supportive space. Only after receiving your confirmation email will you get the payment details and find out which sliding scale applies to you (depending on how many participants have already confirmed and paid).
Capacity:
Limited to 50 participants to ensure intimacy and connection.
Frequently Asked Questions
Who Is Temple For?
What if I’m new to this kind of experience?
This Temple is designed to be accessible to beginners and experienced participants alike.
Whether you’re new to these experiences or have been on this journey for years: This space is for anyone curious about exploring deeper levels of connection, intimacy, and play.
We invite you to play with a beginner's mind.
This is especially a space for you if
You’re craving a space where your body, your queerness, your tenderness don’t need explanation.
You’re curious to explore eros and aliveness in a safe, guided setting.
You want to feel the joy of being with women and queer kin who share your embodied reality.
Is this space trans-inclusive?
Yes :) This temple is for women, lesbians, female*-read queer, and nonbinary folks living in female bodies*.
We know this boundary is specific.
It comes from lived wounds and from the deep need to rest in the company of others who share this embodied reality.
If this boundary touches something tender for you, please reach out. We welcome dialogue.
What if I feel shy or triggered?
Shyness is welcome here. You are invited to honor your own pace, whether that means participating fully, watching quietly, or taking a pause.
If something feels triggering, you’ll be supported to step back and reconnect with yourself, and to approach one of us for support.
Do I have to engage in everything?
Do I have to do anything sexual?
Absolutely not! Nothing is ever required.
We invite Active and mindful participation meaning we highly welcome agency by being able to step a side as any part.
This is a space where you can explore at your own pace, following your own curiosity and honoring your boundaries.
What Should I Bring?
Wear comfortable clothes you feel good in. Bring water, and if you wish, a small item for the altar.
Curious?
Still have some concerns or hesitations?